Friday, July 11, 2008
Drama in the Life of a Teenage Girl
So, I met this guy at church and I thought he was really cool and sweet and down to earth. Turns out I was wrong. Not that he wasn't a nice guy or anything he just isn't the guy for me. I went into this with the plan of having fun and getting to know each other. It seemed liked he was ready for us to be married. He told me he loved me before we were even a couple. He turned out to be a little crazy, too. He was very obsessive and clingy. When I told him that I thought we should just be friends he started making up these things and tried to blame us not working out on me. He said he was clingy because I was started to pull away from him. And he said that happened within the first week, which was crazy. Oh, well. My friend was over last night and we stayed up late. He called me at 3:00 in the morning and told me he couldn't go to sleep until he apologized for everything he said. He had made it up just to hurt me. It didn't matter to me 'cause I was already over it. This morning when I checked my e-mail he had sent me 2. He was practically begging me to reconsider. That is not the way to go about things. Anyways its over now and there are NO plans for us to get back together on my side. I hope this doesn't seem mean. It may come off that way but this guy is really not for me. I would love to remain his friend, though. But nothin' more.
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I know who you are talking about, I really like him but you are much too young for a serious relationship. It's life, it has to be learned. People don't know how to be a parent unless they are taught, people can't do well on teaching a class or doing a talk unless they are taught how and have practice. But at the young age you all are, things are new and lessons have to be learned. I hope both of you learn from this. Having a claim to one another shouldn't happen until you are courting for marriage. I had a ton of boyfriends before my hubby and I was never serious with any of them, I waited until I was old enough for marriage to be a topic. Do u know what I mean? Set boundries before you meet boys and when you do, let them be aware of them.
Thank you for your comment. I do appreciate your advice and I think your right. I'm too young for a relationship right now and I just needed something like this to show me. I want to act like a grown up when really I'm still a child and have a lot of growing up to do.
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